Black Wives Matter
left-behind black women
I want to point out one source of racial tension that is ignored and repressed.
Color preferences in relationships - create racial inequality; a sense of being left behind.
While there are many percentages given on the internet, the numbers tell us:
Black women are often left out.
So, how many black women in America would agree that this is a problem?
Should black men say, “I have an obligation to prefer the women of my race,
so they too, can fully participate in the life that I am searching for."
Yes, or No?
And when it is repressed, the anger is then redirected through other topics -
and becomes absolutely unsolvable. And the people it affects - they withdraw.
This is about black women, rejected by their own men.
This is about black women, rejected by their own men.
Black men who prefer non-black women - leaving black women alone and lonely,
but too often left alone with the fatherless children created by these same black men.
So, this piece is about lonely black women.
Color preferences in relationships - create racial inequality; a sense of being left behind.
While there are many percentages given on the internet, the numbers tell us:
There are more women of all colors who want black men
than there are men of all colors who want black women.
Black women are often left out.
That's sad. It's as if their skin color is a burqa that keeps others from seeing them.
I have enough black friends to know this is a problem.
This creates anger in black women.
I know a black family where a young black man was dating a white girl.
His bio-sister said, “A Sista just can’t get a break!”
So, I know this is a real thang.
What does this girl do with her anger? It has to go somewhere.
The main point of this article is: A lot of black-love-anger is being redirected
I have enough black friends to know this is a problem.
This creates anger in black women.
I know a black family where a young black man was dating a white girl.
His bio-sister said, “A Sista just can’t get a break!”
So, I know this is a real thang.
What does this girl do with her anger? It has to go somewhere.
The main point of this article is: A lot of black-love-anger is being redirected
in vague terms that no one will truthfully label, so it is difficult to solve.
So, how many black women in America would agree that this is a problem?
Should black men say, “I have an obligation to prefer the women of my race,
so they too, can fully participate in the life that I am searching for."
Yes, or No?
I have been to Latin America and South America a few times,
and visited old seaport-cities that used to be slave-trade centers
like Cartegena, Columbia and Lima, Peru. These are cities shared by:
> Indigenous people,
> Europeans,
.> descendants of African slaves,
with every possible color combination thereof.
To them, shades of color are very important, for it indicates their origin and social status.
A Question: So, is it morally wrong for a black man to marry a non-black woman?
My perspective: If he thinks white women are superior to black women.
I know several mixed-couples and get along fine with them.
Some people are simply color-blind,
but some people prefer someone lighter-or darker - for their own reasons.
.> descendants of African slaves,
with every possible color combination thereof.
To them, shades of color are very important, for it indicates their origin and social status.
A Question: So, is it morally wrong for a black man to marry a non-black woman?
My perspective: If he thinks white women are superior to black women.
I know several mixed-couples and get along fine with them.
Some people are simply color-blind,
but some people prefer someone lighter-or darker - for their own reasons.
Sidebar: I suspect some white females were molested when young - by white men,
and so, they hate white men. They still have a sexual libido, but don't want to be lesbians.
So, they turn to black men. I'm sure this happens, I just don't know the percentage.
I'm also sure that some white women go after black men to vex and grieve their white dads
for whatever reason. Yep. I'm sure of it.
And some women just crave green money and the lifestyle it will buy,
no matter what color of man it is attached to.
BLACK WIVES MATTER
A PBS debate?
I would LOVE to see a debate on PBS between left-behind black women
and the other-colored wives and girlfriends of famous black men.
It would be interesting, don’t you think?
Would either side have the courage to participate?
and the other-colored wives and girlfriends of famous black men.
It would be interesting, don’t you think?
Would either side have the courage to participate?
It really would make a great feminist project.
Would PBS have the guts to host it?
How many black women in BLM marches are there - because some white chick
took the man that could have been hers; so, they are angry at the white world?
But then .... they have to march beside the extrovert white chicks who steal their black men.
Then...the white women act like they're doing black chicks a favor by marching?
Or maybe some white chicks do this as a victory lap, to taunt black women.
Would PBS have the guts to host it?
How many black women in BLM marches are there - because some white chick
took the man that could have been hers; so, they are angry at the white world?
But then .... they have to march beside the extrovert white chicks who steal their black men.
Then...the white women act like they're doing black chicks a favor by marching?
Or maybe some white chicks do this as a victory lap, to taunt black women.
Such a debate should include interviews with black men that don't marry black women,
asking hard questions about if and why they simply prefer women who aren't black.
Let's get this issue out in the open. Let's discuss BWM more than BLM.
Let's get this issue out in the open. Let's discuss BWM more than BLM.
Because until BWM..........BL don't M.
BLACK WIVES MATTER
"We always finish last ... even with our own men!
12-26-24: I was browsing YouTube and looking at the post-2024 election-unhappiness videos.
One set of comments from a black woman - spoke to me, and you can see why below.
(I listed the reference to a YouTube video, but the reference somehow disappeared from here)
"I'm going to get drunk today.
I'm going to act like an angry black (expletive deleted) woman.
'Cuz I'm (expl) angry. I'm mad. I'm upset.
I'm angry as (expl) Bro - I'm hurt.
My feelings are hurt.
We always finish last - we always come (expl) last by everybody -
even with our own men.
You Nigga's mommas be black. This (expl) be crazy.
Ya'll got black (expl) daughters.
I'm angry as (expl).
Imma get drunk and cause problems."
"...even with our own men."
Someone finally said it out loud.
One set of comments from a black woman - spoke to me, and you can see why below.
(I listed the reference to a YouTube video, but the reference somehow disappeared from here)
"I'm going to get drunk today.
I'm going to act like an angry black (expletive deleted) woman.
'Cuz I'm (expl) angry. I'm mad. I'm upset.
I'm angry as (expl) Bro - I'm hurt.
My feelings are hurt.
We always finish last - we always come (expl) last by everybody -
even with our own men.
You Nigga's mommas be black. This (expl) be crazy.
Ya'll got black (expl) daughters.
I'm angry as (expl).
Imma get drunk and cause problems."
"...even with our own men."
Someone finally said it out loud.
Thank you!
I rest my case.
Black wives DO matter.
I feel sorry for this young woman in her loneliness.
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But you know, you know... some black social activists don't want this problem to go away,
because this keeps black women stirred up and pliable towards racial unrest.
Just as Islam uses polygamy to keep young Muslim men agitated toward world conquest,
Black social activists use black women's loneliness to keep these women agitated, eh?
Yep.
I feel sorry for this young woman in her loneliness.
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But you know, you know... some black social activists don't want this problem to go away,
because this keeps black women stirred up and pliable towards racial unrest.
Just as Islam uses polygamy to keep young Muslim men agitated toward world conquest,
Black social activists use black women's loneliness to keep these women agitated, eh?
Yep.
BLACK WIVES MATTER
Is Eric Rose against interracial marriage?
Only if:
1) if interracial marriages inherently puts biracial children at a disadvantage.
2) if one of the partners is being taken advantage-of, because of their skin color.
3) if a person is attracted to a different skin color because of a mental illness or PTSD.
4) if a person feels that a different race is inherently superior - social climbing.
I wish that every woman of every race had the opportunity to be married and be loved.
BLACK WIVES MATTER
Biracial
While many people know their specific racial makeup, some folks don't.
Growing up fatherless and not knowing your biodad or his DNA - adds to the perplexation some kids feel, and increases their sense of isolation - especially when they are not exactly the same color as their mother.
This is one reason why connecting with the other side of the family can be helpful.
And even fully-fathered people can experience angst by being biracial.
Imagine going to a family reunion on one side of the family
and being the lightest-colored person there, and some cousins might be jealous...
and the next weekend, going to a family picnic on the other side of the family.
and being the darkest-colored person there, and some cousins look down on you.
There's no happiness in either situation.
This has to create a sense of ungroundedness and a desire for solitude.
I don't have a solution for this, I just acknowledge it.
It's like being a member of a Royal Family, but not in line to be the Monarch.
Almost - but not quite. Not the heir, but the spare.
This can affect people's outlook on life,
which affects their behavior, eh?
Not an excuse, but an explanation.
Growing up fatherless and not knowing your biodad or his DNA - adds to the perplexation some kids feel, and increases their sense of isolation - especially when they are not exactly the same color as their mother.
This is one reason why connecting with the other side of the family can be helpful.
And even fully-fathered people can experience angst by being biracial.
Imagine going to a family reunion on one side of the family
and being the lightest-colored person there, and some cousins might be jealous...
and the next weekend, going to a family picnic on the other side of the family.
and being the darkest-colored person there, and some cousins look down on you.
There's no happiness in either situation.
This has to create a sense of ungroundedness and a desire for solitude.
I don't have a solution for this, I just acknowledge it.
It's like being a member of a Royal Family, but not in line to be the Monarch.
Almost - but not quite. Not the heir, but the spare.
This can affect people's outlook on life,
which affects their behavior, eh?
Not an excuse, but an explanation.
